In the heart of Las Vegas, one spirited alumna shines bright for her unwavering dedication to New Mexico Highlands University (NMHU). Carla O’Neil, a proud member of the class of 1993, embodies the values of education and family that resonate within the campus community.
Carla’s connection to Highlands runs deep; she is one of 15 siblings, including ten sisters and five brothers, fostering a culture of higher education that has transcended five generations.
Reflecting on her family’s educational journey, Carla recalls the influence of her mother, Efren Silva, a 1966 NMHU graduate who instilled the belief that education was an essential part of life.
“Make sure you get your education,” Carla says her mom told the family. “It’s important because you never know what life may bring.”
For Carla, achieving the goal of earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in Special Education with a minor in Early Childhood was a significant challenge.
“Sometimes life can be a struggle,” she says. “I became a widow when my kids were just 18 months and three years old. Pursuing my education enabled me to support my family. I got my degree after 12 years of hard work, with my family as my biggest supporters.”
Her children, John Charles O’Neil and Jennifer O’Neil, were recipients of the Viles Foundation scholarship, a program Carla passionately promotes to local students.
“I’m always trying to inform kids about the Viles Foundation scholarship because it has helped so many students in our community,” she says.
Over the years, Carla has taught in the Las Vegas City School District and currently works with special needs students at West Las Vegas Schools (K-12). She also is actively involved with the Las Vegas Special Olympics Team.
“It’s a gift that God has given me, and I’m very good at it,” she says. And at 73 she asks, “Why not? I still have a few years left, and if I can do some good, I might as well get after it.”
This commitment to making a positive impact extends to her annual tradition of transforming her home at the corner of Eighth and Washington into a dazzling display for the Homecoming season.
With the help of her sister, Yolanda, they began decorating in 2015, achieving multiple wins in the Residential Decorating Contest.
“We used to just put up balloons—nothing too elaborate,” Carla says with a laugh. “But after we won that first year, we really got into it! We’ve won a total of five years now, including this year. It’s become a tradition we look forward to.”
Carla fondly recalls a memorable moment when a truck full of baseball players shouted, “Those ladies are at it again!” Their spirited support inspired more than just encouragement.
“Not only did these young athletes cheer us on, but some also pitched in, helping hang decorations, paint my fence, and set up our signs. It’s incredible how these small acts can bring people together,” she says.
Carla’s commitment to alumni spirit doesn’t end with decorations. She creates an inclusive atmosphere by inviting everyone to celebrate together.
“Every year for homecoming, I host a little party after the game in my backyard where friends, family, and even newcomers gather to share in the joy of the season,” she says.
Carla’s nurturing spirit extends beyond her immediate family and friends.
“Just last week, I noticed some students had a flat tire,” she says. “I ran home to grab a Fix-a-Flat and helped them out. It’s just what we do here. We’re all in this together.”
This spirit of camaraderie reflects the heart of the community she cherishes.
“Las Vegas is a loving community, and I want students to know they’re not alone,” she says. “If I could share one piece of advice with current students at Highlands, it would be that there is always someone willing to help. You just need to reach out. It’s important for students to know that they have people who care about them.”
Through her stories, Carla encapsulates the spirit of Highlands: a place where education, community, and support come together.
“Through Highlands, I have been able to make lasting friendships. I’ve learned the importance of being there for one another,” she says.
As Carla considers the impact Highlands has had on her family, she emphasizes the importance of nurturing a supportive environment.
“Thanks to my mother’s guidance, we understand that education is not just about personal success,” she points out. “It’s about contributing to the community. It’s important to act not only for ourselves but also for the benefit of those around us.”
